Bob Mellors with Aubrey Walter started Gay Liberation Front. I knew
Bob Mellors well, He was genuine and stood up for what he believed.
He was far-reaching too and always questioned fixed dogma. He became
friendly with Bobby MacKenzie but I only discovered this fact in the
last few months.
What
I do know is that when I lost touch with Bobby, Bob Mellors visited
me often and talked about gender in great detail. He told me that
his ideas had evolved so that he was now more influenced by the
criteria of gender, and that he was writing a book on Charlotte Bach
who had influenced him greatly. This must have been a big shift for
Bob Mellors. He was very excited about these ideas whenever he came
to visit. Towards the later part of the Gay Liberation Front
movement there were angry disagreements when many gay men sided with
Socialist and Marxist principles. Others saw this as a cop-out and
rebelled. A gay men’s commune was formed in W11 where men wore only
women’s clothes and aligned themselves with the radical feminist
women’s movement in support of the effeminate homosexual and drag
queen. But also there were other gay men who went further. Bob
Mellors was one of them, and aligned himself with the feminine and
woman. This was because he saw the effeminate man and drag queen as
victims of the patriarchal system, and to condone this was
reactionary and could not change the inequality of gender
definitions in society. I have heard men from Gay Liberation Front
say that Bob Mellors got lost in his later ideas. I disagree. To say
such a thing is not fair to someone whose mind was always sharp and
questioned fixed criteria. You could say that he moved from the gay
masculine to the feminine. One could also say that he formed a
bridge from the gay to the transgender, for there were many men who
did not really fit into the gay politics of that time, but there was
no alternative political movement for them then. Transgender
politics as it is now in 2006 did not exist.
Bob Mellors did not survive. He died in Poland. He was kind and
thoughtful, a friend whom I respected greatly.
London W11 in the 70s. 9. Rachel Pollack
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