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Bobby and I and what happened. Chapter 1: Love at First Sight

 

It was W11 in the early seventies. I had been arrested and acquitted for the first Miss World demonstration and I was living in W11. The area was full of all kinds of political activity. I knew gay political men in the area, Bette Bourne was one, and he and friends invited me to a Gay Liberation Front meeting which was held every week in All Saints’ Church Hall. It was full and there was an openness in those days where everyone was made welcome whether you were gay or not. I was heterosexual, unhappily married with a small child living in one room as most people were in London in those days . There were hundreds of people in the hall and it was then that I saw her. She was so beautiful, she took my breath away. She wore a skirt and sweater, and pinned just above her right breast was a women’s liberation badge. I moved to look at her profile and yes she was beautiful, and I was shaken up by my reaction to her. Suddenly realizing that people must be looking at me I moved behind her, hoping she would look back, and just as I was about to give up she glanced behind her briefly. Then the meeting was over and I lost her. She was not outside either. Everyone walked home talking about the meeting, but I felt angry because the beautiful woman was not to be seen and why hadn’t she looked for me. She must have felt the same as me, I thought. Next week I went to the meeting and looked everywhere, but she was not there and I was very disappointed.  Chapter 2: Women's Commune
 
Picture: old photo: All Saints' Church Hall, early 70s (now demolished).
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